Asking for a date in real life approaching

You’re talking to a girl that you have approached in real life. You have generated enough attraction that she is smiling/laughing and showing interest in you by conversational flirting. You have also built comfort by sharing things about you by storytelling and/or sharing something vulnerable. The conversation has been going on for at least 10 […]

How to improve your dating life (the smart way)

Imagine a scenario – you try to talk to a girl and for some reason get rejected hard. Maybe she straight up ignores you, maybe she looks at you with disgusted eyes, maybe she tells you that you are too short for her. Now imagine this happens a few times in a row – how […]

#1 reason for frustrating dating lives

Not happy with your dating life? Let’s do a quick diagnosis. One of the first questions I ask when a guy comes to me is – in the last 30 days, how many conversations with women have you initiated? Typically the answer ranges from 0 to 5. Well that’s your problem. If you don’t talk to […]

How to cold approach without it being cold

Imagine if you could approach women cold without it really ‘being cold’. Well, you can. Here’s what I mean. A lot of times walking down the street I catch women’s eye contact. Even if it’s just for a mili-second, I use that as an opportunity to approach and say something like Hey, you looked at […]

Biggest turn off for women

I went out to a club yesterday and at one point we went to the bar area with my friend to chat and relax. Next to us were a few girls, and I saw at least 3 different guys circle hovering around them for minutes, until one of them did a super weak approach, the […]

When a girl doesn’t trust you

Late February, 2024, Madrid I’m on a weekend trip to relax from work and hopefully have some adventures. It’s my last day today, so I begin going out quite early at 2pm in the afternoon. I’m having loads of interactions and I’m hopeful I will land a date for tonight. At around 4pm I ran […]

Escaping the ‘boring, nice guy’ category with women

Most men get categorized as boring when they interact with women. The main root cause? Not spicing up their conversations. Most men’s conversations are really bland without any emotions. Would you cook your food without spices? No but that’s what most guys are doing when they talk to women. When most men get categorized as […]

How a software developer almost gave up on his dating life

I want to tell you a real life story that illustrates why it’s important to keep going through the rejection storm and what good can come out of it. A few weeks ago I was going out during the day with a guy who is a very serious, analytical software engineer. This was our 3rd […]

Street to bed in 5 hours

Somewhere in Europe… It’s 9pm and I’m ready to go home and relax after 2 hours of street approaching. I say bye to my friends and as I’m about to walk home I notice a beautiful girl dressed in black professional outfit coming my way. “One more” I think to myself and go up to […]

Is approaching women on the street weird?

I get asked this question a lot, so let’s break it down. Let’s start with this – is it normal to approach women in a club? It’s a standard practice to approach women in club, but what really is a difference between a street and a nightclub? Nightclub is a socially engineered place with alcohol, […]